Welcome to the Friday Feature Post
where we get to celebrate YOU!
Before we dive in, this Friday Feature is not about showcasing perfect marriages. We want couples who are willing to share both the good and bad. We’ve asked you because we believe our audience can learn from your marriage. Every marriage has something to offer. Perhaps you can share how you play well together, or are on the same page disciplining the kids, or survived started a business together, etc…
We’re excited you said yes and we can’t wait to share your marriage journey with our Intentional Marriage Members!
We encourage both of you to answer the questions. Simply put your name by your answer. You can update as frequently as you want to save your answers.
Please answer the first 3 questions:
Q: How did you meet each other?
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Q: How did your husband propose?
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Q: How long have you been married?
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Choose any 15 or more out of the 43 questions below:
Q: Did you go through the Thrive curriculum? If so, describe your experience.
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Q: What was one thing that surprised you after you were married?
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Q: What are you both really excited about?
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Q: What’s one thing you do for your husband/wife everyday?
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Q: What are your thoughts about counseling? Do you and your spouse go?
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Q: What’s one piece of advice you would share with someone before getting married?
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Q: Name a couple who inspires you?
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Q: Are you becoming the husband/wife you hoped you’d be? Why or why not?
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Q: What was the happiest period of your marriage and what are the reasons you think so?
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Q: In your perception, are there any rooms of his/her life that you believe are off limits to you?
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Q: Can you name the one or two aspects of his/her life that make warmth in your relationship more difficult?
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Q: What do you see in the character of Christ that you most wish were in you as well?
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Q: Can you honestly say, “I love you my husband/wife as is, without requiring anything to change?” Do you ever waver on that?
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Q: How would you describe the word, “love?”
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Q: Would you say that you love each other more now than earlier in our marriage?
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Q: Do you see him/her growing more godly as the years go on? How are you measuring that?
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Q: Does it bother you that he’s/she’s growing older? If so, in what ways?
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Q: Has God put his finger on some aspect of our marriage that needs attention? What is it and what do you believe He wants from you both?
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Q: What worries you most about life?
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Q: Is there something in your life you have never had the courage to tell him/her? Why?
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Q: Do we work together spiritually to your satisfaction? What could improve that?
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Q: Do you feel that there is something unfulfilled in your life—something God wants you both to do? What is it?
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Q: How happy are you with our praying as a couple? Is there something to be done to make things better?
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Q: Has your husband/wife helped you become more mature spiritually? In what ways?
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Q: Do you ever question if you are a believer at all? What causes you the most doubt? What can we do about that?
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Q: Does your husband/wife sometimes embarrass you? If so, how?
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Q: Do you sometimes think that he/she doesn’t respect you? In helpful and careful terms explain why you perceive that.
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Q: If he/she were to be disabled mentally or physically in a severe way, do you think you can handle that? What would be the most difficult aspects?
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Q: Do you try to fix him/her? How? Does it work?
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Q: What is the biggest mistake you have made in the marriage? Why?
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Q: Are you suffering internally in any way? What is it?
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Q: Do you think your children and friends see your marriage as beautiful? Why or why not?
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Q: In what ways does your marriage reflect the relationship of Christ to his future bride, the church?
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Q: Are you hopeful about the future?
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Q: Do you focus too much attention or not enough attention on your children?
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Q: Is there anything about our physical love-making that you wish could be improved?
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Q: Do you like the way he/she responds to your family? What could he/she do to improve?
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Q: Do you feel that he/she respects you? How could he/she show that better?
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Q: Are you happy with the way you are involved with other believers?
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Q: Do you have any ideas concerning your finances that need to be examined?
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Q: Do you think he/she spends too much time or not enough time with my friends?
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Q: What would be one change in his/her life that you most believe would be for my own good?
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Q: What do you most wish you both could do in the future to make an impact on our world for Christ?
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